How To Fight a Good Fightl

Fighting Gives You Free Access To Real Information That You Did Not Intend To Receive


It's official. You are in a fight. It is with your mother, father, brother, sister, in-law, boyfriend, girlfriend, neighbor, dog, cat, lover, teacher, husband, wife.  Fighting is never fun and we usually do not have it on our "To Do List". However, fighting can give you a better perspective about yourself without intending on it.  Many times when we fight it is usually over a control issue; it's not about what they want, it's about what you want. Simple math.  During the fight there are things you want that you can't get, right? For example: He won't marry me. He wants a commitment and I don't.  She is probably still in love with her ex.  He's holding back his feelings.  My daughter can't get on the sports team. My son isn't listening to me. My sister is selfish. My brother won't loan me the money. My wife is spending all my money. My husband won't work. She's controlling. He's lazy.  He doesn't love me. The dog won't "sit". The cat won't stop meowing. How do you resolve this? Maybe you don't.

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